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Joyfulness

Read "The Grouchy Ladybug" and  practice verbalization skills

Month 2 · Activity 12 · Character Traits  

Instructions

  • Learning to be "joyful" can be characterized by not being  "grouchy"
  • Read the story "The Grouchy Ladybug"  by Eric Carle or Read/Listen here
  • Ask the child to share things that make him "grouchy"  
  • Make a list of the "grouchy" items (Showing a child how you use writing skills is important to their wanting to learn to write. When we say “make a list” please use paper/pencil or chalk/dry erase board and let a child watch you write)
  • Discuss what you can do together with a child so those grouchy items can turn into "joyful" happenings
  • For example, the statement "When I go to bed I get grouchy because I don’t like to brush my teeth" can be discussed and different solutions presented. Perhaps, giving a timer for a child to set for how long to brush, purchasing a different toothbrush or flavor of toothpaste, or learning about preventing cavities can make brushing teeth a  "joyful" bedtime routine.  

Simplify

Share something that makes you grouchy and then ask the child to tell you something that makes them grouchy.

Extend

Chat about how you can change a feeling of "grouchy" to feeling "joyful".  For example, I was feeling "grouchy" because I had to pick up my toys. Mom suggested we put on some music and set a timer to see how long it would take to pick up the toys.  Now I feel "joyful".

QUESTIONS FOR CHILD

Can you share one great thing that happened today?

What is something that makes you grouchy every time it happens?

Materials

  • Language Skills
  • Social Skills
  • Problem Solving Skills